Can you “catch” stress from people around you?

If you’ve ever felt like you’ve caught a bad mood from someone, it probably wasn’t your imagination. 

A couple weeks ago I came across a study that looked into this, and I was fascinated because it’s something I’ve personally experienced (and chances are you have, too).

Have you ever been in the middle of a great day, and then you run into someone who is totally stressed out, angry or worried? And then before you know it, you’re knocked out of your good mood and are suddenly feeling stressed and agitated, too? 

Scientists recently found that the brain changes associated with stress are actually contagious and can “infect” others. After the stressor is removed, females are better able to reverse those brain changes, while males have a tougher time with it.

This particular study (which was published in the medical journal Nature Neuroscience) was done on mice so obviously more investigation needs to be done on people, but it shows how stress has such a profound impact on us (even if it’s not our own stress) right down to the brain and chemical level.

While some stress is healthy – keeping us motivated and moving forward in our lives! – too much stress or stress at the wrong times can take a toll.

Over time it can affect your health, sleep, and even your waistline.

So, what can you do about it? 

Learning how to mitigate stress and put your body in the best possible position to handle anything thrown its way is your best line of defense. 

Here are a few things you can do: 

  • Avoid stressful discussions at night before bed – save them for earlier in the day whenever possible. Being stressed makes it hard to sleep, which in turn can make you even more stressed.
  • Workout. Studies show that putting your body through physical stress helps relieve mental stress.
  • Try deep breathing. Take a deep exhale, and then slowly breathe in, feeling your belly and lungs expand, and slowly exhale. Repeat several times. You’ll feel your body start to relax.

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  • Eat healthy fats like salmon, chia and flaxseed. In one study, medical students who were given omega 3 supplements reported stress reduction of 20 percent (check with your doctor or pharmacist before taking any supplements, especially if you take prescription medications!).
  • Try aromatherapy – lavender, orange, ylang ylang and frankincense can help  you relax.

  • Get some fresh air. It’s amazing what going for a walk can do to change your perspective. 
  • Watch a funny movie or TV show, listen to music, or listen to a comedy channel on streaming radio. 

  • If you’re feeling stressed, take a timeout and make sure you’re not stressing out everyone around you.

And try not to stress about stressing out. The most important thing you can do is take a step back and take care of YOU.  As you know- this will help you take better care of everyone and everything around you. 

 

Have a great (and stress-free!) day!

 

Christina Sanghera 

Co-Founder, Inspired Wellness

 

REFERENCES:

www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2018/03/180308143212.htm

www.healthline.com/nutrition/16-ways-relieve-stress-anxiety

 

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16 Comments

  1. kumamonjeng August 24, 2019 at 3:06 am - Reply

    The best way is to stay away from negative people and stay with happy vibes. I agree with you that eating healthy and stay active is important.

  2. Stacie August 26, 2019 at 11:06 pm - Reply

    I love this. Stress is just as catching as the flu, and it’s just as horrible. When I was still in the work force, stress was a common part of the office, and if you weren’t stressed out from work, you were stressed out from other people’s stress.

  3. Shannon August 27, 2019 at 5:45 am - Reply

    OMG stress is totally contagious! My husband gets so stressed out and it bleeds over to me when he is!

  4. Pati Robins August 27, 2019 at 6:54 am - Reply

    i think you can catch a feeling of unese but not sure if stress is the right word x i lead a very stressful life – yet i am fairly calm

  5. Myrah Duque August 27, 2019 at 3:32 pm - Reply

    I believe so! That’s why I stay away from negative people. Stress can be so contagious.

  6. Sue-Tanya Mchorgh August 27, 2019 at 8:04 pm - Reply

    Yes I think it is possible to catch stress from the people around you. That is why it is so important that you be mindful and cautious of the people you have around you. Eating healthy is so important.

  7. Jasmine Hewitt August 27, 2019 at 9:56 pm - Reply

    i totally believe stress is catching. its best to try to separate yourself from the stresses of others

  8. Shahla San August 28, 2019 at 2:41 am - Reply

    Couldn’t agree more! Attitudes/stress it’s contagious! Trying to teach my kids this too.

  9. Kiwi August 28, 2019 at 5:36 am - Reply

    You definitely can catch stress from others easily. I definitely try to clear my energy more as I am an empath.

  10. alexandra cook August 28, 2019 at 9:15 am - Reply

    I believe that we can actually catch stress from people around us and what the best thing to do is to stay away from those negative people behind us.

  11. Rosey August 28, 2019 at 10:37 am - Reply

    I think you can. If I get stressed out my student’s feel it and it changes the whole dynamic of the room.

  12. Arya August 28, 2019 at 1:31 pm - Reply

    Since I meditate and started applying the teachings of Robin Sharma and Joe Dispenza my life is transformed.

  13. Catherine August 28, 2019 at 2:49 pm - Reply

    When I was younger my mother would say happiness is contagious and I think goes the same for stress. How other people behave can definitely affect your mood.

  14. Yeah Lifestyle August 28, 2019 at 9:06 pm - Reply

    Honestly, this is one of the best post I have read today. I find that sometimes I can get stressed by just meeting someone and never knew that stress was contagious. I know now.

  15. Courtney August 29, 2019 at 2:43 am - Reply

    Ahhhh being around stressed people definitely stresses me out lol. It definitely is contagious lol

  16. Cheyenne October 16, 2019 at 2:44 am - Reply

    How funny, this literally happened to me today when I got home unfortunately… it’s crazy to think how much your own, or ones own, stress can have an affect on others. It sucks to be brought down by someone else’s negative energy, so moving forward I am going to be more mindful when I am stressed and instead of impacting others w. my bad energy I will use one of the strategies listed above in order to de-stress!

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